Message from the Universe: The power of kindness
“To touch someone with kindness is to change someone forever.
Heavy, huh? That’s nothing.
Because for everyone you touch, you also reach everyone they will ever know. And everyone they will ever know. And everyone they will ever know. And so, for the rest of all time, your kindness will be felt, in waves that will spread, long after you move on.
The Universe”©Mike Dooley, http://tut.com
Paying it forward. Many videos have demonstrated the technique on how to pay it forward when someone has done something good to you. It is always better to pay it forward with gratitude vs revenge, so focus on doing more of the good than the bad. When you help someone in need, that same person will want to replicate your kindness, and start looking for people to needs help. It won’t be to just wait around for someone coming to you and requesting help, but taking initiative to go out there and offer your help to someone in need. Paying it forward helps the person in need but it also helps your soul. It is a great feeling to know you’ve changed someone’s life forever, and that person will go out there and do the same for others. With the proper momentum, it will act as the domino effect where more and more people will randomly provide act of kindness to others, without expecting anything in return. Without you realizing, your simple act will change the life of million of people.
It is important to focus your effort of kindness to people who are really in need versus the ones who are there to just take advantage of you. You can spot them everywhere. The key is not to get fooled by their techniques to make you feel like they are the victims and need your help. It may take some trial and error to decipher the psychology behind the ones who just want to take advantage but once you do, it will get easier to track them down. For the rest of the honest humans who genuinely need your help, go out there and help as many people as you can, bring some joy into people’s heart and give kindness to all the ones who needs it the most. Pay it forward everyday of your life as the Universe will pay it back 10 fold.
Dr. Dan Amzallag, PhD