It’s hard to believe Thanksgiving is just around the corner. For many families with children, the holiday has evolved into an entire Thanksgiving week, often filled with half days or days off from school, followed by a longer break as the holiday itself approaches. On one hand, this provides a great opportunity for families to connect, enjoy extra time together, and prepare for the festivities at a more relaxed pace. However, it can also bring challenges—navigating a week without typical structure, managing increased responsibilities, and accommodating travel plans or hosting guests can create added stress for both parents and kids.
To help your family make the most of Thanksgiving week, consider these expanded tips for a positive and memorable experience:
Make a Plan
Proactive planning can alleviate much of the stress that comes with a disrupted routine. Start by mapping out a day-by-day schedule that includes school hours, work obligations, and childcare arrangements for each day from Monday through Wednesday. If your children are old enough, involve them in the process—give them a list of age-appropriate tasks such as cleaning their rooms, helping set the table, or sorting decorations. This not only keeps them engaged but also fosters a sense of responsibility and contribution. Visual schedules, whether written on a whiteboard or created with colorful sticky notes, can make the plan more fun and accessible for younger kids.
Establish Enough Structure
While flexibility is important during holiday weeks, maintaining core routines provides children with a sense of security and stability. Try to keep bedtimes and wake-up times consistent, and encourage kids to stick to their usual morning and evening habits. If school is out, help children build a daily schedule that mixes free play, screen time, meals, and quiet activities like reading or puzzles. For families with varying needs, consider allowing older children to help design their own routines, which can boost their independence and motivation. Structure doesn’t have to be rigid, but having a general framework can greatly minimize meltdowns and uncertainty.
Create a Schedule for Thanksgiving Day
Thanksgiving Day itself often comes with a flurry of activities, from cooking to hosting to participating in community events. Simplify the day by mapping out an hour-by-hour itinerary: when to start meal preparations, who is responsible for which dishes, and when chores like setting the table or tidying up should happen. If you’re participating in a morning turkey trot, block out time for getting ready and commuting. Build in downtime so everyone can recharge, and make sure to communicate the plan with all family members and guests. Having a clear schedule reduces miscommunication and helps the day run smoothly, leaving more space for enjoyment.
- Plan out errands: Decide in advance when specific grocery items or pre-made dishes need to be picked up to avoid last-minute rushes.
- Designate a “runner”: Assign someone to handle any last-minute store runs for forgotten ingredients or supplies, so you’re not scrambling at the last minute.
Entertaining Kids
Keeping children happily occupied is key to a stress-free holiday. Prepare a list of activities they can choose from throughout the week and on Thanksgiving Day. Set up an arts and crafts station with supplies for making festive decorations or gratitude cards for family and friends. Organize family-friendly competitions such as a scavenger hunt, board game marathon, or even a mini talent show. If space allows, create a photo booth area with props for silly family pictures—a fun way to capture memories and give kids a creative outlet. For older children, encourage them to help with simple meal prep tasks like mixing batter or arranging snacks.
Physical Activity
Physical movement is crucial for burning off holiday excitement and keeping spirits high. Schedule regular outdoor time—even short walks around the neighborhood or spontaneous games of catch can make a big difference. Head to the park for basketball, tennis, or playground fun. For families who enjoy running, sign up together for a local turkey chase race or fun run—many communities host these events and they’re a great way to start the day with energy. If the weather is uncooperative, consider indoor alternatives like dance parties, yoga sessions, or active video games that get everyone moving.
With some thoughtful planning and a balance of structure and flexibility, Thanksgiving week can be a joyful time for your whole family. Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday filled with laughter, connection, and cherished memories!
